Physical Chemistry // Foundations

When I first started my journey into exploring the foundations of a relationship, the very first one I came to was physical chemistry. Why? Because I think it’s the first one that a lot of us come to. Being physically attracted to another person sets off a vibe that can instincitvely create a domino effect into a potential relationship with a mate. However, it may just lead you down the wrong path – realizing that you may have based all your levels of attraction to this one person on this ONE particular block. Unfortunately, its not the sturdiest block to rely on. Physical chemistry can ebb and flow and change the course of any relationship. I sit down with my friend Nat to talk about this. This is Foundations. Enjoy the episode.

Do you think physical chemistry is a crucial foundational aspect of a relationship? Sound off in a comment below!


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Friends with Benefits // The Gay Dater

Friends with Benefits is something we all may experience when treating the deep waters of dating. This is a friend that you hang out with but mostly just hook up with. Nothing more than that. Now innately this situation can get sticky. Because you know, feelings. I talk with my co-host of the episode, Jo about the upsides and downsides of Friends with Benefits. Enjoy the episode.

What are your thoughts on FWB? Sound off in the comments below!


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#StinkyD*ck: Sexual Hygiene // The Gay Dater

Personal hygiene. Its not just important for health reasons but its also something people pay attention to when it comes to sexual partners. I talk with my co-host of the episode Jo about our opinions on sexual hygiene and what we’ve experienced. This is staying clean. Enjoy the episode

What have your sexual hygiene experiences been? Sound off in a comment below!


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PDA in the 21st Century // The Gay Dater

Holding hands. Nabbing a kiss while you walk down a street. There are so many forms of PDA – or public displays of affection. But what do they really mean? Do they have implications to where the relationship is going? Do they set an expectation of where the relationship is meant to go? I sit down with Nat to discuss PDA and what it could mean if your man wants to hold on tight to that hand in public. We also talk about PDA in the 21st century – social media and the impact it has on relationships. Enjoy the podcast.

Thoughts on PDA? Am I just a crusty single fart? Sound off in the comments below!


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The Ghost and The Ghosted // The Gay Dater //

When I first did my podcast on Ghosting, I really wanted to talk about my own personal experiences. I soon realized that, like all topics, its so much more interesting to get another perspective. In this part two, I talk to Jo who adds a second layer to the story of this very common experience while dating. We talk about being the ghoster, and being ghosted and what that means. This is Ghosting Pt. 2. Enjoy the episode.

What have your ghosting experiences been? Sound off in a comment below!


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Oh, The Crazy Sexy Places You’ll Go // The Gay Dater

Trains, planes, taxi cabs, parks, beaches. The list is endless when it comes to alternative places to have sex other than a bed. In most cases, its because of necessity. I talk with my co-host of the episode Jo about our crazy sexual places but move into talking about the sexual aspect of voyeurism and exhibitionism. We then talk about sex spas and cruising, both prevalent on the underbelly of the gay community, and discuss why they still exist. This is, Oh the Crazy Sexy Places You’ll Go. Enjoy the episode.

Where is the craziest place you’ve had sex? Sound off in a comment below!


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I’m F*cking a Married Man // The Gay Dater

It’s 2017. And it seems nowadays the traditional iteration of a relationship has kind of gone out the window. Open relationships are the new monogamy with many couples. And I’m not just talking boyfriends and girlfriends. I’m talking about married couples as well. For many married couples the term “Til Death Do Us Part” now has a big asterisk beside it that stipulates, “I’m bound to you but for the sake of our longevity (or whatever reason), we can fuck other people.” I’m not here to break down social norms as to why society has shifted in this way. I just find it fascinating how prevalent its become in not only the homosexual culture (where I believe it has been predominant for longer) but also now the heterosexual culture in the most recent wave of the new generation. At the end of the day I think people have their own individual reasons as to why they desire this particular arrangement. I talk with Jo about my personal experiences with it, and some of the pitfalls of open relationships.

What are your thoughts on open relationships? Sound off in a comment below!


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