Hugging my one and only mama after coming out to her in 2015.

Mother // Perspectives //

Happy Mother’s Day ya’ll! Now I was feeling particularly festive this year and decided to start (another) series. This one is called, Perspectives and I am hoping to interview a variety of people with varied outlooks to have an open conversation to understand their point of view.

In this first episode of Perspectives, I talk to my good old mom to try to understand what it felt like after I came out to her, what she fears, and she even gives some advice to kids and parents on how to approach your gay child.


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A Broken World // Sassy Conversations //

I’ve felt pretty broken for the past four months. My internal bleeding heart is just gushing with anguish from observing the world right now. You can’t ignore the problems of the political sphere we are facing right now and it’s only the beginning.

I’ve ranted about it but I think the final message I want to send to everyone is don’t give up. Let’s not take things lying down. Let’s not wait until it’s too late to fight back. Be vigilant. Be aware. Be ready. Now is not the time to run and hide.


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Threesomes // Dating Deal Breakers //

1. 2. 3. I don’t know why, the first thing that comes to mind when I think of threesomes is Britney’s 3. Well, probably because its a pop dance track about threesomes… Sooo…yea. This dating deal breaker is a little more lighthearted about something you may or may not experience as you traverse the dating world.

Once again, sex positivity FTW in my books.

What do you guys think? Threesomes? Too aggressive?


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Serial Daters // Dating Deal Breakers //

Serial dating is an actual thing. Defined by my friend Emma, a serial dater is someone who:

“as soon as they hit puberty, as soon as dating was acceptable they’ve been in and out of relationships”

We discuss both sides of what it means to be a serial dater, and the dangers of dating one if you want to start something serious.

As I mentioned, I think it’s something that you should be aware of. Knowing someone’s dating past absolutely defines their present and future actions in relationships.

What do you think about this? Are you a serial dater?


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Sex on the First Date // Dating Deal Breakers //

Right off the top I’m going to admit it. I am a sex positive person. I’m not one to shy away from consensual, organic and chemistry charged intimacy. When it comes to dating however, it is easy to muddy the waters with this particular act. Why is that? I’m joined once again by my friend on another episode of Dating Deal Breakers, where we talk about sex on the first date.

Now as I mentioned, in my personal experience, “sexuality is so baked in to the way we deal with things. To me it’s almost normal”. This may not be the case for some people but I think it helps to demystify the idea of sex as being such a taboo subject.

I’m all about sex posititivity. What are your thoughts?


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Open Relationships // Dating Deal Breakers //

We’ve all heard about them. Do they even work? Are they worth the trouble? I grab a friend for the first installment of my Dating Deal Breakers series to get some more perspective on this very interesting topic.

Is it a dating deal breaker for you? Sound off below!


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